Addictions
ruin lives. In my work, I've often seen the devastating effects of
tobacco: slow death from cancer, or the emphysema
lifestyle of oxygen tanks, breathing treatments, and a cosmic struggle
for each breath. We all know what misery alcoholics can inflict upon
themselves and their loved ones. Dangerous illegal drugs like speed
can kill you quickly, and even marijuana can become a demanding obsession
that crowds out more interesting pursuits.
In particular,
the appeal of cigarettes to young people continues to puzzle me.
When I see teenagers smoking, I wonder: why?
Rebellion? Sucking on addictive drugs from corporate pushers hardly
seems like effective rebellion to me. Why can't they get a nose-ring?
A purple mohawk? Read Noam Chomsky? Take off and go travelling?
Or create new ways to rebel? If they smoke because it looks
"cool," then cool is in the eye of the beholder, because to me it just
looks self-destructive. Not to mention the smell...
In addition
to tobacco, alcohol, or illegal drugs, we can become addicted to heavily
advertised junk food, cola drinks, coffee, and nasal decongestants or other
pharmaceutical "quick fixes." We can also get "addicted" to television,
work, unhealthy relationships, and now even the Internet.
Late
in 1984, I read the cover of a self-help book called Positive Addictions
which had come out in the 70's. I didn't buy the book, and never
read it, but it changed my life nevertheless. The book suggests that
you use the same psychological tendencies that lead to the usual addictions
to get "hooked" instead to things that are good for you. I
immediately thought of friends addicted to jogging--they couldn't relax
until they got their "fix" of exercise.
I decided
to apply this idea. I hadn't yet gone to physical therapy school,
but I was already convinced of the incredible value in daily stretching
and yoga-type exercises. I knew that the way to become addicted
to something is to do it every day. My New Year's Resolution
in 1985 was to practice yoga each day for the whole year. I didn't
miss a day until May, but by then I was hooked! Without stretching,
I felt tight, irritable, and uncomfortable. This "withdrawl" was
painful, so the next day I was back at it, and have continued ever since:
I stretch about 15 minutes a day, and hardly ever miss. I don't have
to "discipline" myself; it just happens automatically. I've never
had the chronic "aches and pains" which plague so many people; I attribute
this and many other benefits to my healthy habit of stretching.
When
I moved here from San Francisco in 1992, I found a great dentist--who informed
me frankly that my gums were in bad shape. This got my attention,
as my dad in his 40's lost all his teeth to gum disease. My dentist
told me to floss more and to use the "Interplak" electric toothbrush as
well. I also had heard from my sister that if you clean your teeth
really, really well once a day, the bacteria can't multiply enough to cause
serious damage.
I decided
then that another "positive addiction" was in order. Every night,
I
flossed and then used the Interplak for a full 5 minutes.
Within a few weeks, my gums were firm. I was already hooked:
if I missed a night, my mouth felt puffy and foul. I still do this,
and now use the "Water Pik" sometimes as well. I'm an oral-hygiene
junkie. My mouth is in good shape, and I hope to keep all
my teeth until I die.
So if
you're like me, and have a bit of an "addictive personality," you can turn
your weakness into strength by getting addicted to good things. Still,
remember: even "positive addictions" can go wrong if they become
obsessive and crowd out other elements of a balanced life. My life
would be pretty dull if all I ever did was floss and practice yoga.
Work can be a deeply satisfying part of life, but we lose perspective if
we become "workaholics."
On
the other hand, some of our greatest geniuses have been driven by a
single vision, purpose, or obsession. So I don't know what's best--use
your judgement. But don't smoke.
Here's a great site on Noam
Chomsky (not really related to the topic of the above paper, but just
in case anyone was wondering...)
I have studied with several Iyengar
Yoga teachers, and I have found this approach to be very anatomically
precise, although this is certainly not the only valuable approach to yoga.
The book "Tooth Fitness" by Thomas McGuire, DDS (St. Michael's Press, 1994),
is an incredible resource for preventive dental care. You can order
"Tooth Fitness" from the discount bookseller Hamiltonbook.com
for $4.95 plus $3.00 shipping. Scroll down to the bottom to find
it. This book may unfortunately be going out of print...
If anyone knows a good website on keeping your teeth and gums healthy and
thereby preventing dental problems, please let me know!